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Having An Affair During A Loveless Relationship
What takes place when you are not in love with your
partner as you originally thought ? What if he or she
simply are not what you're looking for? By now
you may already be in a long standing relationship with that person.
I bet you in all probability still love them and do
not want to hurt them. This is how many secret affairs happen. You need more but you still want your lover, so you stray off monogamy and go find someone else to try and satisfy your urges.
I'm sure you did not mean to harm your him or
her. Alas that is not the point.
Whether you intended to or not, you did indeed cause he or she
devastation and emotional pain that comes from betrayal.
If you discover yourself not as infatuated as before, do not remain out of
guilt. unfortunately, many people make this mistake . They learn that they are not really in love with the person, but by then it is too late and they try to have a
secret affair.
So if you determine that you simply are not in love
with your partner anymore , be truthful with your feelings and let
them know that the relationship is over. Do it as gently as
you can, but do not allow yourself to
continue in the relationship out of fear of causing harm
to them.
No matter what the justification for an affair,
always remember that it is about the single
most hurtful action you can ever perpetuate in a relationship. If you love your
partner, or even just respect them, please limit their pain ; just
go away. Let your lover go and start a new life. It will be
better for both of you.
Having An Affair During A Loveless Relationship
What takes place when you are not in love with your
partner as you originally thought ? What if he or she
simply are not what you're looking for? By now
you may already be in a long standing relationship with that person.
I bet you in all probability still love them and do
not want to hurt them. This is how many secret affairs happen. You need more but you still want your lover, so you stray off monogamy and go find someone else to try and satisfy your urges.
I'm sure you did not mean to harm your him or
her. Alas that is not the point.
Whether you intended to or not, you did indeed cause he or she
devastation and emotional pain that comes from betrayal.
If you discover yourself not as infatuated as before, do not remain out of
guilt. unfortunately, many people make this mistake . They learn that they are not really in love with the person, but by then it is too late and they try to have a
secret affair.
So if you determine that you simply are not in love
with your partner anymore , be truthful with your feelings and let
them know that the relationship is over. Do it as gently as
you can, but do not allow yourself to
continue in the relationship out of fear of causing harm
to them.
No matter what the justification for an affair,
always remember that it is about the single
most hurtful action you can ever perpetuate in a relationship. If you love your
partner, or even just respect them, please limit their pain ; just
go away. Let your lover go and start a new life. It will be
better for both of you.
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